You are defined by you

I know a couple of people who go through difficult times in their lives and don’t know their purpose. They try to make ends meet but it just doesn’t seem enough. At the end of the day, the question always arises, “Who am I?”

I can definitely relate to that statement. At least it resonates from a time where I didn’t know who I was as a person.

Your purpose in life should be defined by who are as a person.

I remember one time, I was at the lowest point of my life and it was quite annoying, to be honest. I knew that it would pass but I couldn’t really bear the feeling in that moment.

I was in high school, I really didn’t have much friends and I started to define myself of whom I’m associated with. I grew up believing that I wasn’t enough. I wasn’t really with the cool crowed and I couldn’t really be the cool kid.

We always seem to be on a journey, but our identity as a person is something that we all should take care of because it’s the strongest part of our belief system.

You are not defined of what you do but you are defined of what you believe in. This will hold true and will radiate your actions in everything you do.

If I believe that I am a good person, who is to say that I am not?

You are defined of what you believe about yourself.

Some of us believe in lies and believe that we are not enough, no matter what we do in our lives, it feels like it’s not enough.

The actions we do are a huge thing, sometimes that’s what we need. A little push. The push that will help us get to where we want to be for our happiness.

Have you every heard the saying, “Good things happen to those who wait.”

I think this is true, there is a time for everything, everything happens for a reason, you are where you are because you are moving towards the bigger picture, one way or another.

Sometimes, when waiting becomes too long, you just need to move forward, make that push for yourself and keep moving forward.

No one is life is going to push you. You are your own best motivator.

If I expected people to define me as a person and receive affirmation every time I do something, I’m not fully fulfilling myself as a person.

Affirmation is great and we definitely need them sometimes, but you are your own best believer.

Someone once said to me, “You are your own best friend.”

I totally agree with this, you need to be happy with yourself, you need to be having conversations with yourself, and assure yourself that you’re doing what makes you happy.

I don’t think it’s selfish to do something that makes you happy. You want something that will benefit your life. Essentially, you have a life. Live that life. Don’t live your life for others.

Your happiness is more important than what people think of you.

I don’t think you should limit yourself in the opinion of others.

The best things in life are free. Money can’t buy happiness. Money can’t buy time.

BUT

We also don’t want our bank account to define us.

Money is not the best motivation. If your goal is to be rich, then you will never be happy.

Money comes and goes. It will always be there.

Your purpose in life will be your money maker.

What is your purpose?

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